Today we’re introducing Big Feels Monday. “Big Feels” is a new weekly series by The Big Silence where we talk about how we’re feeling and bring up tools and inspiration to help start the week.
Let's Talk About Feeling Overwhelmed
This week Karena Dawn and James Nicholas Kinney talk about overwhelm, languishing, and chronic stress triggers that lead to sustained anxiety. You're invited to be a part of the conversation! Watch the video, and if the topics Karena and James talk about resonate with you, we've compiled tools and resources to help with you with your week.
It’s a month into 2024 and the holiday haze is fading into the background as a whir of stimulation hits your brain and body through the electronic pings of emails and notifications, and the calendar invites returning to their full scale range of ruling your life.
Recent studies have reported that emails and notifications can cause a flight or fight response in the body. There’s even such a thing called “email apnea” or “screen apnea” characterized by “shallow breathing or breath holding while doing email, or while working or playing in front of a screen.”
Perhaps you are a recovering people pleaser fixated on how to reply to everyone’s request, but struggling to stay energized and keep your own peace of mind because your feeling of the need to respond or manage is constantly nagging in the background.
There is so much in life that demands our attention, and sometimes it can become a bit overwhelming. How do you set boundaries and protect your mental space, your mindfulness and your own intentions when all the noise comes ringing for your attention?
We want to slow down and talk about it. And we have tools to help, too!
Mental Health Tools of The Week
Are you a recovering people pleaser? Are you a burned out high-achiever moving from one adrenaline stoked moment to another? We have tools to help you slow down and take initiative towards putting your mental health first.
Well-Balanced: Tips for Managing Anxiety, Living Authentically, and Embracing Play
In this conversation with Liz Plosser of Women’s Health Karena and Liz talk about the pressure of being in a leadership role, and how to manage the anxiety that comes with being in a public facing position - especially as an introvert. Liz also shares her daily wellness routine that helps keep her mental health in check.
A few of our favorite tips to make the most out of your day from Liz Plosser, editor in chief at Women's Health, include:
Gratitude list: Making a list of good things that have happened or things that you appreciate about life can be an empowering way to make a positive start to the day.
Journal your ideal day: If you had an ideal day for you where you could do anything, what would it look like? Starting with when you wake up write it all down. This tool can help you to prioritize what really matters to you.
What is the definition of high functioning codependency and how it can show up in our lives?
Boundary Boss Terri Cole helps us learn how to set healthy boundaries by learning to give up our need for control, and how to support others without taking on the burden of their problems. Terry says:
“As humans, of course we are going to be invested in the people we love, so it’s not like it’s pathological or anything is wrong with you….I think there’s a misunderstanding and a misnaming of codependency. People have this old school idea that it means enabling addiction. I phrased high-functioning codependency because I really saw a behavioral pattern with [people] who are super capable and getting things done, but were still so overly invested in the lives of others, to their detriment.”
What is Your Stress Type?
Are you a chronic stress magnet? To learn about your “stress type” or how stress impacts our physical and mental health, listen to Master Your Stress: Boosting Energy and Beating Burnout with Dr. Doni Wilson. You can even take a quiz to learn about your stress type on Dr. Doni's website.
Feeling "blah" or unmotivated? Our experts open up about how your mental health impacts your motivation.
Reduce Stress, but Make it Fun
Dance is a fun and powerful tool to help you with your mental health. Learn about the power of dance for mental health and join The Big Silence team in a dance-a-thon!
Big Feels Feedback
How are you really feeling? We'd love to hear about your week, or share your favorite tools for the week in the comments!
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